Love is just a word… until WE FIND HIM.

Your perfect match is waiting. Let our professional matchmaking service help you find HIM.

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About WE FIND HIM

Since founded in 2015, we’ve spent countless hours developing a brand of coaching and matchmaking services that surpasses the rest. Our organization is exclusive and discreet, for those daters that value their privacy. We are the only company that offers a 2- step screening process of our daters. Along with coaching services that will not only help you learn how to properly date but will also give you the self confidence needed in your everyday life. You can rest assured that your date has been personally screened by our matchmakers prior to your event.

Our Exclusive Services

From personalized matchmaking to professional dating coaching and VIP concierge services, we offer everything you need to find HIM — and become your best YOU.

Matchmaking Services

Private, hand-selected matches tailored to your preferences, with our signature 2-step screening process for quality and compatibility.

Dating Coaching

One-on-one or group coaching designed to boost your confidence, improve your dating skills, and help you present your best self.

Premier Concierge

From wardrobe styling and date planning to exclusive mixers, our VIP concierge services take care of the details so you can focus on love.

Are you a Single Professional with limited time on your hands?

No worries. Leave it to us to find H.I.M.! We Find H.I.M. is a premier same gender loving matchmaking and dating coaching service company. Our dating coaching services will allow you become the best version of you as we prepare you to find HIM. Also, our discreet and diverse matchmaking method is changing the dating scene and bringing sophisticated singles to LOVE.

We are your personal dating scouts and love consultants. Not only do WE FIND HIM, we’ll help you become your best YOU along the way!

J‘LAMAR

Certified Executive Matchmaker & Dating Coach

J’Lamar is the founder and Executive Matchmaker of We Find Him LLC which focuses on improving same gender loving men’s dating experiences through individualized self-development coaching and personalized matchmaking plans. J’Lamar is also a Dating Coach, TV Personality, Talk Show Host, and Certified Life Coach with over a decade of experience in the media industry, ranging from hosting to producing and writing original content.

Customer Testimonials

Real experiences from singles who found confidence, connection, and love through WE FIND HIM.

Mark

Thank you to J’Lamar for helping me organize my first date with a guy. It was a success and we have a second date already lined up.

Mark

Derrick

The @WeFindHIM page helped me find my boyfriend of 4 months. Thanks J’Lamar and team!

Derrick

Jackson

I was nervous about dating again after being single for 6 years, but thanks to J’Lamar’s coaching I feel excited about getting back on the dating scene.

Jackson

Get In Touch

Whether you’re ready to become a client or just have a question, we’d love to hear from you. Our team is here to help you take the next step toward finding HIM.